Devastated and Broken Marriage

Devastated and Broken Marriage: My husband and I are struggling. We are struggling financially, emotionally, physically and every other way a marriage can struggle. I am praying and practicing his love language and getting ready to start the love dare. I feel like I get nothing in return. He doesn't respect, appreciate or value me. He belittles me because "all I do" is stay at home with the kids and he works. He spends the money any way he wants while we go without because "he works". He never thanks me for anything I do for him, our home or our children. He doesn't acknowledge the sacrifices I make to stay home with our kids. I know I'm not perfect. I am short tempered, occasionally demanding and I probably doesn't show him as much respect or appreciation as he deserves. I just sometimes feel like it hard to give that when I don't get it in return. We are at a dead end. We talk and I tell him how I feel but it never changes. It seems that the more I do for him the less he does for me. He never supports me or consoles or comforts me and is almost never affectionate. I used to wonder what was wrong with him but now I wonder what's wrong with me...why don't I bring out those feelings and emotions in him? We need prayer and divine intervention. He seems to be content being miserable but I desperately need to feel loved again. Please pray that we learn to love, respect, appreciate, value and communicate that way God wants us to and heals our hearts and our marriage.