How to Get Married and Stay Married!

Do you think the couple in this video understands the seriousness of marriage? We don't think so.

LIsten, if you are engaged to be married, or just considering marriage, you are in a wonderful place. Wanna know why?

Because right now you have the perfect opportunity to learn all you can about marriage.

You have options now that you won't have after the wedding. For starters, right now you have the option to put on the brakes, slow things down, or wait a little while if necessary.

Remember, once you are married, there will be no refunds or exchanges.

Now is the time to learn all you can about marriage, before you get married.

Now is the time to really begin seeking God in prayer for His will concerning your life.

Hold on a minute, you have prayed about this... haven't you?

Listen, marriage is not a wedding or a fairytale. So if you've been fantasizing about your wedding attire, your wedding day, and your steamy wedding night, it's time for us to push the pause button.

Marriage is hard work, we mean heart work. In fact, we can almost guarantee you'll have a few mornings when you'll wake up, look at your spouse and wonder what in the world have I done? So it's crucial you take your time with this.

We're not trying to scare you, we just want to make sure you understand the seriousness of this. Marriage is a lifetime covenant.

So, before you say "I do", there are questions you need to ask God, yourself, and your fiance'. Questions? Yes questions.

No, we're not suggesting you sit your fiance' in a dark room with a bright light and interrogate them. Although that might be kinda funny, don't do that.

Take your time. Learn how to get married the right way.
Listen to God and stop focusing on the wedding.

When we say "there's no rush", please believe us.

You do believe us, don't you?

Okay, slow down and say these words... "there-is-no-rush."

Say it again, "there-is-no-rush."

Go ahead, keep repeating it until you get it.

Now, stop talking to yourself and go get a cup of tea ;-)

Get comfortable and spend a few minutes on this page.

Remember: "Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God, Phil 4:6."

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