How to Survive an Affair



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How to Survive an Affair


how to survive an affair

Christian advice from someone who’s been there and done that!

Husbands aren’t the only ones who cheat. Hi, I’m Minister Wanda– and I’m a former adulteress. I’ll share more about my story in just a moment.

If your spouse cheated on you and you are unsure of what to do next, understand this: You will survive! You are more than a conqueror through Christ Jesus!

All you need is a little guidance. Lessons from a Former Adulteress will give you that guidance, plus pages of important do’s and don’ts for your situation. Above all, it will remove that paralyzing feeling of not knowing what to do.survive an affair


“Wanda, did you really cheat?”

“He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” John 8:7


Yes, I had an affair.  Hopefully, that doesn’t surprise you too much. The Bible says that all of us have sinned and fallen short of God’s glory. Romans 3:23

The affair happened over twenty years ago in my first marriage during a time when I was both emotionally and spiritually immature. My marriage was dysfunctional and I was utterly miserable.

Whenever I suggested marriage counseling, my husband always refused. As a result, our looming marital problems and my immaturity led me into the arms of another man.

By that time, the tables had turned; it was me who now had no desire to get counseling — I felt confused and just wanted out!

You may feel confused by your spouse’s affair but you don’t have to stay there.

You can move forward and begin to make God honoring decisions that are in the best interest of you and your spouse.


Should you leave or stay?


Well, it’s not that simple.  Although divorce should not be a Christian’s first option, there are three instances when divorce may be in the best interest of both you and your spouse.

Yes, the Bible does make provision for divorce in cases of infidelity but whether or not you should consider divorce will depend solely upon whether or not these three conditions are at work in your marriage.




What You’ll Find Inside:



Book Features:


    • Pages of Advice from Someone Who’s “Been there and done that!”-

Wanda shares 13 essential lessons she personally learned that will guide you through your valley. You’ll receive Godly insight on what to do, as well as what not to do.

    • Is Separation Helpful?-

Separation is often used as a cooling off period to help couples decide whether or not they should stay together. Find out if this is an option you should consider.

    • When Should You Consider Divorce?-

Divorce should never be the first option for a Christian couple who has suffered the blow of infidelity but there are certain situations when the Biblical option to divorce should be considered. Find out what they are.

    • Forgiveness and Reconciliation-

Did you know that your willingness to forgive your spouse is not enough to reconcile your marriage? There are two other factors that will determine if reconciliation is possible or not.

    • Sections for Journaling-

Journaling has become more and more popular over the years and has many positive offerings such as helping to organize your thoughts and also relieve stress. You’ll find these journaling sections to be quite useful in your healing process.

    • Surviving Infidelity Affirmation-

A powerful affirmation written by Wanda especially for your situation. Print it off and read it daily to stay encouraged and emotionally stable.

    • Meditation Scriptures-

“Thy word is a light unto my path.” In each chapter you’ll find an inspirational Scripture to light your path and meditate on each day!

    • How to Keep Your Sanity-

Are you laughing one minute and crying the next? Learn how you can keep your emotions in check by doing this on a regular basis.

    • Reflective Questions-

At the end of each chapter, you’ll be asked questions that will help you think clearly and create a plan of action. Answering these questions will take you from not knowing what to do, to knowing precisely what to do.


2 Special Bonus Sections
(Located in the back of the eBook)

    • A Warning about Marriage Counseling-

Did you know that there are circumstances when counseling could be a waste of your time and money? Well, it’s true. No matter how many hours you and your spouse spend in counseling, it simply will not work if certain conditions are present.

    • If You Decide to Stay –

We pray that this doesn’t end in divorce, but there’s more to staying together then meets the eye. Here are four crucial things you absolutely must do if you and your spouse decide to remain married.




You’ll also receive 3 special gifts…


Adulteress Confessions
Value $9.99

Audio Download
(Mp3 format)


“Why I Cheated”
Wanda’s private story
of infidelity



Why Forgive?
Value $13.00

by Johann Christoph Arnold

“So powerful tears often impede reading.” ALA Book List

A compelling volume of true stories, sold and distributed to audiences around the world.



Praying Through Infidelity
Value $9.99

5 Audio Prayers
by Wanda (Mp3 format)

strength and encouragement by listening to these prayers throughout the day.
How to survive an affair


How to Survive an Affair…for a donation of $17

how to survive an affair


This eBook is not for couples. It was written specifically for the “betrayed” spouse who is confused about what to do next.

Lessons from a Former Adulteress will remove the burden of not knowing what to do by telling you what your focus should be.

Find out precisely when you should consider divorce and discover the uncompromising actions you must take if you decide to stay.

Without the right instruction, you could potentially prolong an already painful process.

This eBook will teach you how to survive an affair by giving you Godly direction to make immediate decisions.


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“Lessons from a Former Adulteress”

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Immediately after your purchase,
 you can download your eBook and start getting the guidance you so desperately need.

Remember, you are also getting these Free gifts:

• “Why I Cheated” Wanda’s private story of infidelity

• Why Forgive? by Johann Christoph Arnold

• Praying Through Infidelity – 5 prayers recorded especially for you by Wanda

• 2 Special Bonus Sections in the back of your eBook

This eBook is in the Adobe PDF file format and is not available in hardback. If your computer doesn’t have the Adobe Reader software, you can easily install it for free.

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If you are not completely satisfied with Lessons from a Former Adulteress, just email us within
60 days of your date of purchase – and we’ll issue you a 100% refund immediately.

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*Not available in hardback



“For I know the plans I have for you says the LORD.
They are plans for good and not disaster, to give you a future and a hope.”
Jeremiah 29:11

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