Husband committing adultry again

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Husband committing adultry again

by Patti
(franklin park)

Husband committing adultery again: I'm Praying for guidance and strength I have been married for 28 years we have been together for 31 years we always had a strong marriage and we were always happy. Our friends looked up to us. I need prayers for my husband to come back to me and our kids. Prayers to make him a better person. He needs patience. He is a very hard headed person and has a lot of anger in him when things do not go his way no matter how wrong he is he takes it out on the people who loved him the most His middle son now hates him he has pushed everyone away. I need prayers to bring back the man i met 31 years ago I need prayers for the woman who was our good friend to walk away and realize what she has done to our family. Another woman should not be best friends with someone elses husband. I need prayers to make me stronger I don't want to cry anymore. I sit here everyday by myself while he goes out until 3 am. I need prayers to help me find a job so I can be self sufficient I'm counting change to buy milk while he spends money on her I don't deserve this I am a good person I'm always helping others and putting every elses needs first Please Pray for me I cant explain how hard its for me to live in the same house with him when he never has a kind word I'm struggling with bills, with my self worth thank you Patti' NJ

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Praying for you
by: Mike and Wanda

Hello Patti:

Minister Mike and I are praying for you. Be encouraged and know that God is bigger than anything you may face. Continue to pray and trust in Him.

Mike and Wanda
Christian Marriage Today

your not alone pt 1
by: Anonymous

Hello Patti,

I read your letter and I can tell you that I know how you feel. My husband had cheated on me after 16 yrs of living together. We had got married after living together for 14 yrs. We had finally got married because we did not want to be out of God's will anymore. A few days before our 2nd wedding anniversary ,Sept 2008, I came home from work to an empty room. My husband took all his clothes, jewelry, some pictures etc and had moved in with an ex-girlfriend who was his oldest son's mother.She was always trying to break up our family. She was jealous because we all adjusted to the blended family and she hated hearing her son talk about how he always had fun at his Dad's house. My husband had started drinking after 16 yrs of sobriety. To make a long story short, she had my husband talking about divorcing me and marrying her. I was so hurt. This whole thing came unexpectedly. Also she was African American like my husband and she said he needed to be with a black woman instead of a white woman. She also confesses to be a Christian and thought God had brought my husband to her. I also had to move from our apt and move back in with my parents with our 14 yr old son, who was suicidal because of all of this. My only car had died and I slept on an air mattress on the floor, which always seemed to deflate

your not alone pt 2
by: Anonymous

I felt homeless and broken hearted. I felt like my husband was a different person. We never use to argue and we were always best friends. My world turned upside down. I want you to know that what I got out of all of this is that the only one I can truly trust is God. Those people who are so close to us are human and sometimes do hurtful things for whatever reasons. I believe that Satan was trying to destroy our family. We are now back together since Nov 09. We still have issues with our son who has been hospitalized a few times in psych wards and he is struggling because he has been out of school for a few yrs and is severely depressed.
I still believe that God has everything in control. Both my husband & I have done everything we could do for him. We tried to get him to counseling, he refuses and says he doesn;t believe in God because he use to pray to him when his father left asking him to make him a better boy so his Dad would come back. Satan is a liar because he can't have my son or any of my family for that matter. You have to hang in there and pray for that other woman because she & your husband have allowed Satan to use them. You stay strong and know God is in control no matter what you see in front of you. God told me he is not a liar and his word is truth. His word never changes. You keep quoting scripture that deals with marriage and also salvation. You stay strong. God's got your back. Pray for those that purposely hurt you. Try not to hold any hatred in your heart for your husband or the other women. We can not hate or unforgive anyone. God forgives us so we have to do the same. I know its hard trust me, but you will be the better for forgiving them. God loves you Patti more than
anyone could love you. You hang in there. I believe in his word. He has never failed me yet.

With love,
your sister in Christ

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