I want my Christian marriage to work

by Andrea
(Charlotte, NC)

I want my Christian marriage to work: My husband and I have been separated for about 9months and we have a 7 month little girl. He went to Iraq and when he came back he was a whole different person. He has been asking for a divorce since I was 10 months pregnant. After June 14th I gave in and went to the courts and filed it for myself since that was what he wanted. He told me that he wanted to have his cake and eat it to and that's why he didn't want to remain married. I filed the divorce but I received a letter from the judge saying that the divorce is denied. I feel like this is a second chance to make things right. I just pray that we can make things work and that this marriage is brought from the dead. We are a young couple. I know that God HATES divorce. I just want to do whats right. My husband doesn't hang out with the right people so I just pray that God will get him to see the real picture.