Lying in Marriage

Lying in Marriage: That my husband would admit his need to be truthful and not control winning arguments, making himself look good, slandering me, through the use of lies.

He shuts down many conversations and will not give understanding to me.

That he would have confidence before the Lord and hopefully know the Lord, to not cover his sins, but in humility, admit his wrong doing.

Pray that I would trust the Lord and not give into anger or wrath which is evil. I am at a loss on what to do, and our counselor white washes lying as "inconsistencies" and has yet to address him on it.