Please help me save my Christian marriage

by Ralph
(Ohio)

Please help me save my Christian marriage: My wife left and my heart is crushed. She has been suffering from anxiety and I neglected to her. I wasn't the husband she wanted me to be because I took her for granted. I hurt her with words. I just always assumed she would be there. Now she hates me and wants to be alone. Our children our hurting. She didn't think I loved her because I didn't do anything to show it. I have always loved her I just didn't know how to make her feel it or I was just being selfish. I work hard to give her and the kids a nice home and everything for it. But she said I don't know how to treat a women. I asked her to help with some bills and the responsibility of that was too much pressure and now she blames me for her anxiety. I love her very much and want her to come home. I pray to God that he talk to her and soften her heart and help her remember the good times we had and let her know that she was loved. Please pray for our reconciliation.