Please soften my my husbands hardened heart Lord

by Tammy Boyd
(Muskogge OK)

This is a very long story so I will make it as short as possible. I was married to an abusive husband who was an alcoholic for 18 years he eventually left me for another woman and divorced me. I since then met a great man who adored me and at the beginning treated me great well I had not let go of my past hurts and took them out on him over and over. I promised I would change every time he was ready to leave me but I always ended up doing the same thing. For a year and a half this continued he left a couple times but only stayed gone a day or two and i would convince him I was changed. Well the last time he left he stayed gone almost a month and he was with someone else and had talked to other women just before he left and I told him if he married me I could let go of all past hurts and anger and love him as I'm suppose to and he married me the next day. As soon as he married me I threw everything in his face and after only 4 days of marriage he left me and wants a divorce! Who can blame him? I have always believed in Jesus but somehow strayed away from him the past few years. Well this has brought me back fully and completely! I have lost my best friend and my husband and I know he still loves and wants me but I will never be able to convince him Ive changed and I've come to realize only the Lord can heal and change me. So I ask that u pray for the Lord to make me the wife I'm suppose to be and to soften my husbands heart to forgive me and to see that the Lord is working in me!!!! Please pray for me to fully put my trust in the Lord and know he is working on this right now!


Hello Tammy: Sorry to hear about your problem. Sadly, it appears that you have now become the abuser. Minister Michael and I urge you to seek counseling for yourself. Your husband's heart does not need softening, you need individual counseling and to completely surrender your life to Christ. You will not have a healthy marriage until you are healthy both emotionally and spiritually -- so get help Sis! We will be praying for you.