Prayer for a Healthy Marriage

by Julie
(Jakarta Indonesia)

Prayer for a Healthy Marriage. Recently , I found my ex gal friend of my spouse adding him in his Facebook and this is making me feel very insecure about it.. I revealed my insecurity feeling to my spouse .. he reassured me that nothing happen , but still refusing me to view his Facebook account .. his friends and the ex profile .. He claimed that I cross his privacy while for me he is being secretive... why it has to be secretive while there's nothing happening? I don't think it is healthy for our relationship because I don't feel insecure with it. I don't see any wise decision to let other people in your past especially those who has a chemistry enter your marriage life.. For him , I'm being overreacting , for me , I need to do whatever it takes to protect my relationship and intimacy with my husband...I am very very secure with him until this thing happen..what should I do???>>>I don't want to control my husband but yet i appreciate the honesty and openness as I don't want to be a mind reader and anxious about this...what should I do about this ? Please help me with a prayer for my husband , I need God to help me to take care of my family ...Help us to see that great marriage needs to work on it , and in this case , the openness , honesty and no secrets between us...I thank God for my great husband , kids ..

In Jesus name , Amen..