Praying for my husband soul and our marriage

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Praying for my husband soul and our marriage

by Taryn Huggins
( Lynchburg, Va)

I'm praying for my husband soul and my marriage. I've been married for 11 years and my husband has had more than 10 affairs in the last 4. He used to be a pastor and we got married not knowing each other, it was something we did after three weeks of knowing each other, he lead me to Christ. He says he loves me and isn't opposed to us reconciling, but right now he needs me to let go. He said that he will get his life together soon and he doesn't like the way he's living despite what I think. Our daughter and I live with him in his home because I lost my job when one of his 18 year old girlfriends called me at my job. Then he got transferred out of state and we came along since I don't have any family. I'm tired and weary of seeing him leaving and coming home the next day or out for the weekend. I've been praying and fasting for my marriage, but different women and all I'm tired. He says he's separated and living as such and if it's Gods will He'll put us back together again. Saints I want the perfect will of God to be done in our lives. Please pray for his soul salvation and that God halls or marriage and ministry.

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I will be praying for you.
by: Anonymous

Do not give up as God is the God of the turn around. Stay focused on the Lord and he will bring your husband home. We all need to make the Lord of our lives.

TRUST GOD
by: Anonymous

I will pray for you and your daughter but right now you must release him totally to GOD & ask the LORD to strengthen you & your daughter's relationship with HIM. We can NOT fix our spouses but the LORD can. You MUST concentrate on YOU & i had to learn that too. GOD led me to TBN one night to see Darryl and Tracy Strawberry talk about how rough their marriage was suffering through adultery, drugs, poverty etc. and how GOD led her to realize she was idolizing Darryl and lost herself. She turned him over to GOD and strengthened her relationship with GOD & NOW they have a RESTORED marriage & ministry. I NEEDED to hear that so BAD & GOD knew it & sent it right on time. HE gives us what we need when we need it but we must ask HIM to take the blinders off our eyes to see it. I KNOW IT'S HARD because i and our children are praying that our husband/dad is touched by GOD & rtns (he is a deacon). GOD can do it but we MUST ask him to help us trust HIM & give it to him. My children are adults & it is hurting them even though people say they will be fine, they are NOT. LEAN ON GOD & give your husband to GOD.

Trust in God
by: Anonymous

I'm praying for his conviction and that God will do his will. God promises joy, happiness and love. He also says he wants to be our strong help and put our trust in him. Give it all to God to guide you and continue praying for your husband. I feel your pain, and I'm praying.

SERVE THE LORD
by: Anonymous

I am so sorry for your pain! But please, take heart, the Lord does work in mysterious ways! You should ask God for His direction, not follow this man! Get your own job and make yourself complete in the Lord and he will show you the way. It is not your job to save your husband's soul, it is your husband's (especially if he was a pastor) Don't humiliate yourself by allowing him to hurt you so .. move forward, towards God's love. So much confusion is not the work of God but of Satan. I am sure that when your husband's sees how you have pulled yourself together by respecting and honoring our Lord's commitments, it will make him sit up and take notice and possibly change his behaviors. Right now he is behaving like a child and just taking and doing whatever he wants ... the Lord wants us to be disciplined in our actions. You cannot move that mountain but your faith can! We will pray for you and for your direction

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