Reconcile my marriage and family

by Scott
(Columbia, MS)

Reconcile my marriage and family. I pray for complete reconciliation of my marriage. After 19 1/2 yrs and 3 affairs (1 two yrs into marriage lasting 1 night, 1 ten yrs into marriage lasting 1 yr and 1 15 yrs into marriage lasting 2 months) for the past 4 yrs i thought things were great and she had forgiven me, then she developed a texting relationship with another man and after 1 yr of this I demanded it end and 1 month later she told me our marriage is over. she went to counseling 4 times with preacher but wont attend with me, I go every 1-2 wks. Now people are telling her I am making accusations of her having an ongoing affair and she has withdrawn further, I pray daily for healing reconciliation of our marriage and 2 teen age sons. I adamantly deny that she has any other relationship and don't tell others about her texting friend because I love her and want family back together. We also have a lot of unsecured debt that has put a huge burden/stress on both of us. Now she takes advice from friends that believe in divorce and seems to take my comments and preachers comments out of context. I also have turned my life back to God and pray for spiritual guidance and growth.