Restoration of Christian Marriage

by Darla Osas
(Calgary ,Alberta,Canada)

Restoration of Christian Marriage: Please pray for me and my husband we've been separated now for two months. I have been a Christian most of my life raised in a Christian home but walked away from the Lord. I believed that my husband was using me for papers there was a lot of mistrust on both sides I decided to stop the immigration papers and my husband moved out in less than a day. There has been unfaithfulness,alcoholism and so much more heartache. He is not my children's father but he loved them like he was. I have given my life back to Jesus and am doing all I can to rebuild that relationship with Him .I am attending church again and raising my children in the Lord .My husband text and shows up for a moment every couple of weeks and decides when well talk and when we wont he is seeing the pastor of our church but has also stopped coming to church since we separated. I don't know where my husband stands with God I know he speaks of Christianity but was not living the life God would want him to be living. I am praying for him end his relationship with God and for my relationship with God. I am also seeing my pastor and he told me that i should ask my husband where God feels he is telling him to go with things in concerns to our marriage so I did. My husband has not responded and I think I may have just pushed him away farther I have sat back and allowed him to come to me and given him his space but i decided this morning to let him know that me and the kids loved him and prayed for him each day and that we wished Gods blessing upon him today .He responded back very kindly and then I decided to ask him about how what God was saying to him about our marriage .I never heard from him again today. I did make the comment we should pray about it and when he was ready I hopped we could sit down and talk so maybe he just needs time. Please pray for this marriage. He has told my pastor that he loved me very much and has told me he misses us and loves us and then nothing .All of a sudden it goes back to silence. I was in a very abusive relationship with my children's dad for 11 yrs and it took a lot for me to get involved with my husband I struggle with issues of trust and am working to hand this over to God .God is doing miraculous healing in my life please pray that continues,that the lines of communication open between me and my husband Davidson and healing and restoration takes place in this marriage I love him so much and am willing to do whatever it takes to make my marriage work .But will continue to do Gods will whatever God chooses for me. My name is Darla and my husband name is (Name removed for privacy) please pray for us and our children he has two back in Nigeria and I have three here. Please pray for our little family ! Thank you !