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20 Signs of Marriage Problems

Don't Ignore The Red Flags

Signs of Marriage Problems. "Is my marriage over?" If you have to ask, then it's likely your marriage is in trouble.

But that doesn't mean it's too late to turn things around. Remember, with God all things are possible.

While each relationship is different, here are a few indicators that your marriage may need Godly intervention:

Signs of Marriage Problems 1 - 5

1. Constant arguing

Disagreeing is normal but weekly or daily arguing is not.

2. Nitpicking

One or both of you nags the other about the smallest things.

3. Loss of respect

You no longer admire or esteem your spouse. You don't value them.

4. Sexual infidelity

You're having a physical relationship with someone other than your spouse.

5. Emotional infidelity

You purposely go out of your way to talk with, or spend time with someone other than your spouse.

Signs of Marriage Problems 6 - 10

6. Spiritual infidelity

You neglect to pray for, encourage, or treat your spouse as the Word of God instructs.

7. Loss of intimacy

You are no longer sexually attracted to your spouse.

8. Verbal abuse

This includes cursing, name calling, sarcasm, belittling, and constant criticism.

9. Physical abuse

Not only is this a sign of marriage problems, it's dangerous for everyone living in the home. If you are experiencing physical abuse in your marital relationship, it is imperative that you seek help. Take whatever steps necessary to protect yourself and any children living in your home. The hotline for domestic violence in the United States is 1-800-799-7233.

10. Emotional or psychological abuse

This could involve threats, isolation, domination, intimidation, or neglect.

Signs Marriage in Trouble 11 - 15

11. Lying to your mate

When you become comfortable lying to your spouse this is a clear sign of marriage problems.

12. You no longer enjoy each other's company

You have more fun with other people than you do with your spouse.

13. You have a nonchalant attitude

Basically, you seem indifferent when it comes to your marriage. You don't care what happens.

14. You have no vision of the future

You can't imagine what it would be like to grow old with your spouse.

15. You'd rather be anyplace except home

You dread coming home at the end of the day.

Signs of Marriage Problems 16 - 20

16. You are the last to know

Your spouse talks to everyone else but you.

17. Nothing you do is right

It seems you can do no right where your spouse is concerned. Everything you do is wrong!

18. You don't trust eachother

You're suspicious or jealous of your spouse.

19. You regret getting married

You often question why you married your spouse.

20. You constantly think bad things about your spouse

You regularly think negatively concerning your spouse. Keep this in mind, your spouse may not know your thoughts but God does. And He will hold your accountable.