Trying to Trust in a Marriage After Infidelity

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Trying to Trust in a Marriage After Infidelity

Trying to Trust in a Marriage After Infidelity: I'm praying that my husband and I will continue to rebuild our marriage after his affair. We are in our second month of no contact from the other woman, we have been receiving help from our pastor, we have been doing daily bible reading, and working together as we want our marriage to survive. We are committed to being a success story with God at the center of our marriage I pray for my continuous forgiveness for my husband.I pray for help in forgiving the other woman for her hurtful actions after he told her it was over and for the lies and manipulation that caused much hurt.

I need help in to resolving the hurt from the broken trust my husband did and to find a healthy way to remove the anger without destroying the progress we are making moving forward. I need prayers the other woman leaves my husband alone and there is never contact again between them again. I pray for my husband to get closer to God and to continue the positive steps he is doing to repair the hurt he caused his family. It is hard on him as this tore at his soul for he had always been a very trust worthy and honest person before this incident and he want so much to not be the liar he was when he was involved with her. He knows lust got into his heart and he has much regret. I pray he will grow strong and his love for our marriage and God helps him to never find himself in this situation again. I pray that God will save our marriage so we can do Gods will.

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Trying to Trust in a Marriage After Infidelity

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My husband had an emotional affair.
by: Min

My husbands Ex fiancé friended him in Facebook. Within 48 hours he was having secret phone conversations with her, 100's of text messages. One week into it he did tell me they were communicating but gave me no details of there discussions. After finding out by going through phone records how many texts and calls there were, he finally admitted he has feelings for her and it went across the line. She lives four hours away but was trying to arrange a meeting with him. He says at that point he got scared and knew it was going too far. He told her not to contact him anymore and she got mad and started calling him names. She reacted in a way like she was being broke up with. I love my husband he says he's sorry and he doesn't want to lose our family, but he only gives me details when I force it out of him. I don't even know if what he finally does tell me is the truth. Every text was deleted. Except the fighting at the end. That he did share with me. I don't know how I'll ever trust him or forgive him. We've been married almost 10 years and our two kids deserve me at least putting forth an effort. I just really need help. I haven't eaten in three days I feel sick. I can't sleep. Sometimes he acts like he understands my feelings, but then other times he tries to act like there's nothing wrong. Like its over now we can go back to the way things were overnight. This all came to a head two days ago. Please point me in the right direction. I have nobody to turn to. Our family and friends think we are the perfect couple.

Just keep praying
by: Anonymous

I understand how you feel. It has been 2 years now since me & my hubby are back together. I don't know if I will ever be back to trusting him 100%. There is always that little doubt but its okay. I love my husband with all my heart and I know he loves me too. I can live with a little doubt because while we are on this earth we will experience heartbreak, deceit and usually it does come from those we are the closest to but God will never break your heart. He is the only one I can fully trust 100% so I give it to him.
When I start remembering some of those things my
husband did like his lies and abandoning me & my son I just have to ask God to remove it from my mind because I know that Satan loves to throw things at us to keep us hurting. I thank God because he is not a liar. He is the one that restored my marriage. I have to trust that God has it all in control. The devil is a liar, you just keep on trusting God. It will get better with your husband. Search for bible quotes concerning marriage and get them into your spirit.
Believe in his word.

breakthrough
by: jjpet1953

i pray that god will continue to work in your lives and that he will restore your marriage to peace, joy and love.

Lord here this prayer
by: Anonymous

I just wanted to tell you im praying for you and your husband to restore your marriage. I am going through the same thing as I write this. Be strong. (Web page recommendations removed. Please see posting guidelines) Marriage is work, relationships are work, Jesus says in Matthew 19,Jesus' disciples objected, "If those are the terms of marriage, we're stuck. Why get married?" But Jesus said, "Not everyone is mature enough to live a married life. It requires a certain aptitude and grace. Marriage isn't for everyone. Some, from birth seemingly, never give marriage a thought. Others never get asked-or accepted. And some decide not to get married for kingdom reasons. But if you're capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, do it." (Matthew 19:10-12 MSG). I don't believe in breaking promises, Jesus says he will hold those accountable who make the promise to a spouse by vowing and calling God as a witness to marriage and then having a man put his wife away for his own selfish ways. Unless adultery was committed even said that God hates divorce. I pray you and your husband over come the evil in this world, don't let it over take your relationships with God, believe there's a better plan for the both of you. Best of luck and God bless:)

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