Wife has given up-she doesn't love me anymore

by Lauriano
(Cambridge, UK)

Wife has given up-she doesn't love me anymore. First of all, I want to thanks God for everything, he did in my life. I have met my wife Evgeniya Belova in Newcastle, UK. When she was a student there, I like her, I asked her out then we start see each other. In July 2007, she had to go back to Russia because of her student visa, I asked her to stay with me but she said you do not have a place, this and that then last day together, I said lets be just be friends, you are going and i am staying, I said long distance relationship will not work, she said let's try, ok. You come to visit and I come to visit.

Back then I was not a 100% Christian, always back in the world and in church, I was living 2 lives. We broke up because of me (I was walking holding my ex and one her friend saw me and told her), I was upset because I did not speak to her for 2 weeks when she got back in Russia. I thought maybe she moved on. After that we have not spoken for Months, and then we got back together in 2008. We got married last year on 18 July 2009. We applied for her spouse visa, they refused, we appealed and appealed. We decided to make a new application this year, I called few days asked my wife, have you fill the online application form, she said Mother will do it, I said you are the one suppose to do it not your Mother then she goes I am not coming anymore because I stop loving you.

Her mum spoke to her why she made this decision, I made my decision.... She lost her grandfather, few days ago and all her dad's family, they came, they told her to stay and her grandmother. Her grandmother does not want to be alone, also convince her to stay and her father that never cared about her. I tried to talk to her etc, asked why you are staying now I do not love you anymore, I told her, I love her, and I do not care if she does not love me. I do not believe in Divorce, she knows that. I am more Christian then her.

I do not know what to do brothers and sisters, I know the only thing I can do pray for her but also I ask brothers and sisters pray for Evgeniya Belova please.

Her mother, she is here in UK, told me she did everything for her all these years even push her to go to college etc. She wants everything on the plate, I told my wife, let's work together,work,finish our studying but no she wants everything done. I know that I will achieve all my dreams but we need to be strong, never give up fighting.

Please pray for us, my name is Lauriano Kwatabyala and my wife Evgeniya Belova, only God can help us to bring her to UK.

I do not have the strength to talk to her because she knows I Love her so she will say I do not love you.